Why I Love Mark Driscoll

Mark Driscoll resigned his position as pastor of Mars Hill Church, Seattle, this weekend.  The Christian media hype has been mind-numbing for quite some time now.

Mark has made it crystal clear since he entered ministry, that he comes from a very abusive and dangerous childhood experience, noting that many of his weaknesses and faults are due to his journey of faith to overcome those hardships and the personal character flaws which accompany that type upbringing.

Mark has also been extremely candid in his ministry style, especially when he preaches or teaches from the platform or pulpit.  He has never seemed to mince words or hold back a male-chauvinist opinion, which is why he's facing some of the challenges he's facing today.  Mark states that the pulpit is sacred ground, so he highly regards the opportunity to shepherd his flock (congregation) known as Mars Hill Church, now a multi-campus mega-church numbering into the 10s-of-thousands of members.  Mark has stated consistently, that he was 'not ready' for the demands of leadership in his young 20s, when Mars Hill Church began to explode beyond his expectations.

As an author, Mark has included his wife and family into the storyline of their journey, noting their difficult decisions to correct their personal flaws as they attempt to lead a church that has literally exploded with growth in a region of the U.S. which has been quite resistant to the Bible, to Christ-centered Gospel theology, and to Christianity as a belief system in general.  Their accomplishments in ministry have been impressive to say the least.

I LOVE MARK DRISCOLL because he's a REAL GUY.  I've been told by some close friends that I almost resemble Mark in my 'looks'.  HA!!  I'm a 5ft-11in, 220lb guy with a raspy tenor voice, and I'm known to all family and friends as a bit of a cut-up, sometimes crude, most of the time unpredictable and impulsive, and by my doctor's diagnosis -- adult ADHD.  Not sure how closely that resembles Mark, but that's me.

The REASONS that I love Mark Driscoll for his life and ministry are many, but I'll name a few in this quick blog:

1.  MANHOOD.  Mark celebrates God's grand design of manhood.  Guys are guys.  Or, at least they're supposed to be.  Men are wired by God to fight, to chase dreams, to win battles, to take their reward, and to melt in the arms of a truly beautiful woman with whom they dream of sharing life with.  That's what REAL guys do.  They live out fairy tales to the best of their God-given abilities.

2.  GUTS.  Mark has real "guts".  He doesn't appear to be afraid to boldy state his claims, his beliefs, his opinions, and -- until recent 'corrective' disciplines demanded of him -- he really was not all that concerned with how you FELT about his courageous stand.  We need more Christian guys today who will STAND up and fight for what they believe in; even when it calls for 'corrective' discipline at times.

3.  HUMILITY.  Mark has displayed an uncanny humility through the correction process, at least the most recent process mandated by Acts 29 Network during the 2014 calendar year.  His emotional statement to his home church this past weekend conveys a truly repentant and subdued spirit.  Well, that's my opinion on his statement.  I'm sure critics and non-fans will eat him alive on some of the details of the speech.

4.  VISION.  Mark speaks consistently throughout this process of his love for his family, for Mars Hill Church, for Jesus, and for the yet unsaved and unreached peoples of the nations who he dreams will discover the amazing Grace of God that is found through personal relationship with Jesus.  Mark's vision seems to never waver; and that takes incredible fortitude and persistence in the wake of such difficult personal challenges.


My "love" for Mark Driscoll will draw the ire of many who say they are my 'friends' -- and especially those hyper-critics in 'ministry' who just love the legalistic correction process.  I could lose connection with some who call me a social 'moderate' and at best a theological simpleton.  Bring it.  I've dealt with those who don't 'like me' for more than four decades in ministry.  In fact, take a number!  I'll do my best to pray for you during my quiet time meditation, and hopefully I'll show you grace and mercy should we meet at the grocery; but, no promises pal!  (( ha ))

Mark, if per chance you read this, please know that a small town country boy Gospel singer turned 'worship leader' for churches on the Gulf Coast LOVES you, and I'm praying for you.  I love your attitude about this whole mess, and I pray that God gives you, Grace, and your precious family  a much-needed SABBATICAL ... or REST season ... or, whatever you guys are calling it.

As for the rest of us who are broken, messed up, jars of clay who feel like God called us into ministry ... we could learn much from Mark.  He seems to have a truly repentant heart about his anger, his chauvinism, his struggles in marriage, and his inability to effectively lead his congregation at this time.

Lord, help us all who claim your Name and who call others to You ... that we might LOVE one another through difficulties, through failures, through trials and temptations, and through assaults from the enemy himself ... as we press towards the mark of the high calling of the Gospel.  (Phillipians 3:14)

That is all ... for now.  Carry on.   #LoveWins

Oliver - Our Beloved MaltiPoo

Christmas 2006.

My little family was preparing for our second Christmas celebration following the devastation of Hurricane Katrina which landed on August 29, 2005.  What a surreal nightmare!

So, we're surfing the web 'shopping' for a puppy, since our children had begged and begged for years for a pet -- and, specifically a puppy.  And, then -- as we hoped and 'shopped' -- there appeared our little Oliver.

He was born near Alexandria, LA to a litter of Maltese-Poodle mix babies, and his 'caramel-chocolate' mix of hair stole our hearts!  We made the necessary arrangments for 'Santa' to deliver him on Christmas morning, and oh what a celebration that Christmas morning in the Myrick house!

Oliver quickly became the 'diva' in the house, and commanded our attention, love, care, and FOOD!  We had not cared for a 'baby' for many years in our house, so Oliver brought all the daily tasks of caring for an infant back into our world, if only for a season.

After a couple years, it became very obvious to the entire family, connected family, and close friends, that Oliver was 'one of us'.  He knew how to communicate with us in ways that we would have never expected.  He provided many nights of spontaneous entertainment as he would 'wallow' in our blankets and throws on the sofa or bed, wrestle around the floor or bed with us, and RUN ... wow, could Oliver RUN!!

His doctors quickly informed us that Oliver was a RUNNER, so we'd need to be very careful when walking him out in the open and away from the house.  And, boy were they right!  Many times, we would take him out on his leash to 'walk', and before we were a few steps out the door -- there he'd GO!  What fun!!

Yesterday, we said Goodbye to our sweet Oliver.  His liver and pancreas had begun to fail after only 8 short years.  His last few days with us were certainly not like his first 7-1/2 years with us.  His passion for love, play, and food simply left him.  He could only give us sad, longing looks of pain and despair.  That is NOT how we would have wanted him to exist.  So, alas, we are still saying "Goodbye, sweet Oliver".

As our family grieves through our loss, it is increasingly evident to me, that God wants me to slow down, think before I speak, and consider the 'weak' and 'helpless' more often.  Oliver was not a 'big dog' in stature  and frame by any means.  He could bark a loud bark!  But, he would whimper and run at the 'big dog' barking reply of the neighbor dogs in a heartbeat.  And, it made us laugh just to watch it play out.

Jesus said in Matthew 11:28, " ... come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest".

As we bring our weariness and burdens to Jesus, we are asking Him to allow us the Grace to remember Oliver well and to learn from the funny, cozy, loving, and playful times we experienced with him.  We believe God gave us Oliver.  We actually prayed for a good pet that would bring joy, laughter, love, and meaning to the lives of our children and family.  Oliver was ALL those things to us.

So, too all pet lovers ... we now better understand your lives.  Today we grieve. Tomorrow, maybe our pain will subside, and with each day, a little more.  We sure did love Oliver, and we pray that if he does get to meet us in Heaven, that he's having a blast playing around 'doggie heaven' ... until we meet again, we love you our sweet Oliver.

StudentLife2014 - Stetson University, Deland FL


In America, it's become the annual summer pilgrimage for most church youth groups.  Hop on the church bus/van or caravan to the most affordable student camp and spend a few days in worship, Bible study, recreation, team-building, and connecting with other students from across the region or nation.

Our home church, Ingalls Avenue Baptist Church, has chosen StudentLife as our youth camp of choice for the past nearly 10 years.  The staff and leadership are over-the-top excellent leaders and they simply OOZE the love of Christ for students and pastors.

This year, our camp date had to reschedule to accommodate mandated calendar changes within our Mississippi school systems, so our plan for a late July camp became a 'hurry-up-get-ready' plan for late June.  Wow.  We had NO idea what God had in store for us!

Student Life at Stetson University was our choice where we met Sam Bhatt and again enjoyed the worship music of Bellarive.  God showed up.  We encountered the LORD Himself in worship along with a thousand other students.  As a local church group, during our Quiet Times and Family Group Bible study moments, we were faced with the choices to dig deeper, love one another more authentically, make life-changing decisions to step it up in our Christian journey, and bottom line:  TAKE A STAND for Christ, no matter what life throws at us.

Today, we are home after a hot, sticky, bus-engine-repair laden trip from Deland FL to Pascagoula MS.  The journey to south central Florida was a long and hot humid ride.  The expectation of camp made the ride all worth it.  The journey home took 4-hours longer than expected because of mechanical failure on the bus.  And, yes -- it was ALL worth it!

GOD changed our hearts at StudentLife2014.  The challenge today:  REMEMBER what God did in you at StudentLife2014.  ENDURE hardship.  CHOOSE joy.  REMAIN humble and obedient.

Already looking forward to StudentLife2015!

Happy Fathers Day

Traditionally an American holiday, the first Father's Day celebration dates back to 1908 in Spokane, WA.  The festivities do not carry quite the allure of Mother's Day celebrations, however it is certainly an opportunity to give thanks and appreciation for those men who fill the role of "Dad" in our lives.

John Eldredge states that "The Power Of The Father Wound" may be the most significant cause for the debris of brokenness that is felt by most men who struggle with addictions, anxieties, worries, and a plethora of unhealthy emotions.  Of course, the battle with sinful behaviors is that which leads to destruction and ultimately, for some, untimely and unexpected death.   The fact is, guys, often we simply blow it.  We fail to meet the expectations of our spouses, our children, our employers, and our closest friends.  Maybe our 'father figure' failed us, or even hurt us.  Maybe the pain is too unspeakable to even recall.

Jesus said of Himself, " ... Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." ~ John 14:27   He is referring to the Peace that the Father will send through His Holy Spirit, our Advocate.   Jesus makes the promise to his followers that His Father will send Peace for those who trust in Him.  He said that if you had seen Him, you had seen his Father.  He simply modeled what His Father did ... and He still does.

Dads, I pray that you have an awesome Father's Day weekend with your family.  I hope you rest and enjoy your favorite hobby or activity.  More important, I pray that you findPEACE ... as only The Father can give to those who follow Jesus.  I promise, you're gonna need it in this life!

think

think verb \ˈthiŋk\
: to believe that something is true, that a particular situation exists, that something will happen, etc.
: to have an opinion about someone or something
: to form or have (a particular thought) in your mind


Anyone who has read the Bible at all, will discover God's deep desire that humans think.  He has designed us as intellectual creatures with a mind, will, and emotions; and He deeply desires that we think about Him, about His desires, about His Word, about His Way of eternal life and purpose, about His Good News!

Jesus asked people often, " ... what do you think?".  Our thoughts will determine why we believe what we believe; and ultimately how we will choose to live this life, and more important, how we will prepare for the life that follows this earthly existence.

Many of us obsess in our thought life over the cares, concerns, worries, and anxieties of this earth; some of us to the point of actually thinking ourselves into patterns of depression and all sorts of emotional turmoil.  On the other hand, I know many people who have learned how to take every thought captive, as Scripture teaches, and keep their minds stayed on Him.

So, I will ask: what do you think?  Meaning, what thoughts are you allowing to captivate and to dominate your daily mental and emotional exercise?  What do you think about when you formulate your opinions and beliefs?  If your thought life does not lend itself primarily to what God thinks, what He wants, and how He feels ... then, don't expect much of His Presence in your life.  And, do not be surprised when life throws it's muck and yuck at you, and you have no clue how to 'call on the Name of the Lord'.  You haven't spent much time thinkin' bout Him.

However, that can change TODAY.  Think about it!

Trust. Do Good. Prosper.

Trust in the Lord and do good. Then you will live safely in the land and prosper. Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires. (Psalm 37:3-4 NLT)

I love reading the Psalms.  The writings of [King] David reveal a man whose heart and soul had really lived.  David's life is an epic story of mystery, adventure, romance, battle, glory, fame, failure, destruction, heartache, scandal, glory, and legacy.  Sounds like modern day reality TV, huh?!

When I read of David's childhood, his anointing from Samuel, his rugged warrior life, his rise to glory and kingship, his epic adventures in battle and romance, his very public failures and sins, and his ultimate legacy, I am reminded of one of my all time favorite films -- Braveheart --  featuring Mel Gibson as Sir William Wallace, the legendary freedom fighter for Scotland's people.

When David, the shepherd-warrior-poet-king, pens the words " ... do good ... live safely ... prosper ... take delight in the LORD ...", I have to believe this man knew from the depths of his soul what he was passing along to future generations.

Today, I want to be man after God's own heart, like David.  I want to be a freedom fighter, like William Wallace.  So, am I willing to fight like David fought?  Am I willing to admit when I have publicly and privately failed those who trust me most?  Am I willing to stand for justice and possibly become a national martyr like Wallace was?  Are you?

If we are to win this generation to Christ, we must take up our swords and fight, and I'm not talking about brandishing man-made weapons, I'm referring to fighting from our knees and with heads bowed in humility to the LORD.   We must take a stand when others cower.  We need godly warriors in the Church.  The days of passive, sing-me-happy, preach-me-glad, make-me-comfy, normal church must end.  We must become freedom fighters for our children and their children and their children's children.  That's where epic adventures and legacies come from.

O God, give us the courage and strength of our forefathers, that we might fight the good fight, stay the course, and win the prize of the high calling of Christ.

Happy New Year 2014

Yep -- I chose a "Red Christmas Ball" for this blog post.  My wife, Sheryl ... LOVES (infinitum!) ... the color RED.  So, the pic is for you, my dear!

2014 is here.  And, most of the folks in my circle of friends, associates, and community are expecting, or at least, hoping -- for a better year than 2013 proved to be.  And I concur!

2013 was yet another year of transition for our little crew.  We entered into worship and music ministry with Ingalls Avenue Baptist Church to our great delight; we tackled crucial personal and business financial decisions; we became even more familiar with the weekly tasks of care-giving for aging parents; we began the 'journey' into middle school and high school band parent/booster club activities with our 8th grade percussionist Cameron; we are preparing Christian's college graduation from University of Southern Mississippi this coming May; and, we desperately seek for every opportunity we can muster to make the I-65 ride north to visit family and friends in north Alabama and Tennessee.  (( whew!! ))

As we chime in the new year, I have several thoughts stirring in this crazy ADHD brain of mine.  Bear with me if you will.  Here we go: 


HOPE ...
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. - Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)

In him our hearts rejoice, for we trust in His holy name.  May your unfailing love be with us, Lord, even as we put our hope in You.  - Psalm 33:21-22 (NIV)

One my all-time favorite songs was a hit for Alicia Williamson and TRUTH, the super-vocal group of Christian music:  There Is A Hope

Hope does not depend on only what is seen ... Hope is found believing in His Name.  I love that line!!

It is my firm conviction that if we ever lose HOPE for better days, especially when we've endured great hardship, then we give way to the enemy of our souls, and our days here on earth are drawing to a close much faster than we had wished for.  Keep HOPE alive in your life this year!


JOY ...
However, do not rejoice that the spirits submit to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven.”  At that time Jesus, full of joy through the Holy Spirit, said, “I praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and learned, and revealed them to little children. Yes, Father, for this is what you were pleased to do.  All things have been committed to me by my Father. No one knows who the Son is except the Father, and no one knows who the Father is except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal him.” - Luke 10:20-22 (NIV)

I've heard that little cliche statement all my life in my little PK (preacher's kid) world, " ... the Joy of the Lord is our strength ...".  And it's true!  I cannot tell you how many times over the past few years we have found ourselves in the midst of great turmoil, grief, loss, hopelessness, and human despair.  When all of a sudden, as we reminded ourselves -- through the power of the Holy Spirit within -- that our JOY was not based on the circumstances we found ourselves in; but rather our JOY is based in the Truths of the Word of God which come alive in our spirits when we dwell on those Truths, speak those Truths to one another, and live by those Truths by the power of His Holy Spirit!

Here's a fun Gospel clip from my friends Karen Peck & New River with Joy Gardner and the Gaithers ... JOY In My Heart!


LOVE ...
Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. - 1 John 4:11 (ESV)

This year I turned 50.  A friend and accountability partner recently reminded me that I've reached that point in life referred to by one author as "Halftime".  I'll take that!

The longer I live on this old earth, the more I am overwhelmed by God's love.  " ... For God so loved the world, that He gave His only Son ..." - John 3:16 (ESV)

Wow.  If God can love me like I am -- certainly I can find a way to love others, if even for the mere fact that they too are God's creation.

Songs, poems, creeds, chronicles of history, and of course Holy Scriptures have been produced out of the context and human experience of God's love, brotherly love, romantic love, and compassionate love.

Yep ... another tune!  A few years ago I hosted an afternoon "drive time" radio show in Mobile AL.  I had a great opportunity to "spin" the top Christian tunes of that season as I shared devotional thoughts, interviews with guest artists and local personalities.  One of my fav's was this catchy hit from Jadon Lavik ... enjoy Wondrous Love

SO ... I hope that you experience great joy and give away lots of love this year!  Let's all do our part to make it a #Blessed2014


Robby